men. A woman can suffer trauma, deprivation, shame, sheer cruelty and beatings from a man and still stay with him simply for the sake of the children. A woman can do anything and take anything for, or from, a man that she truly loves. A woman can be the most vicious and dangerous of all God's creatures when she is hurt and scorned and when her love is not returned.
A woman in a position
of power can be a dangerous thing because more often than not she is motivated
by emotion and not reason or logic. If wars were to be fought by women they
would never end. The greatest weapon that the devil has in his armory are the daughters
of Jezebel and Dalilah, those beautiful yet evil seducers whose mission in life
is to destroy men that are called to greatness by God. The greatest weapon that
God has in his arsenal are the daughters of Zion, those beautiful, wise,
prayerful, discerning, prudent, patient, kind, loyal women who are faithful
unto death and who are the enforcers and guardians of God's purpose in the
lives of men.
A woman can kill a man
that she has lived with all her life, simply because he never returned her love
and a woman can kill for or die for a man who loves her and stands by her
through thick and thin. If you are rich, pretend that you are poor to a woman
and you will know her true nature. If you are poor, pretend that you are rich
to a woman and you will know what she is really after. A woman that abandons a
man when he is going through difficulties is not worth taking back when those
challenges have been overcome. Beware of a woman's love, for at the slightest
hurt, it can turn to hate. Women gossip and talk, yet a woman keeps deeper
secrets than any man.
When a woman says
"no" she actually means "maybe" and when she says
"maybe" she actually means "yes". A woman that betrays or
seeks to destroy, ridicule or shame her husband or lover destroys and
diminishes her own spirit and wounds her own soul; not only is she not worthy
of being loved by any, but she is not the material for a man of destiny, she is
not of the stuff that true women are made. A great king with a great army can
overrun nations and yet can be mastered and overwhelmed by the mere touch and
whisperings of a loving woman. The love of Helen of Troy caused the launch of a
thousand ships and the love of any woman can cause a man to slaughter. Women
are a gift from God to men, but like all gifts they must be pampered, loved and
given all your attention otherwise they begin to look elsewhere for such
nourishment and care. Out of every specie of animal ever created by God, it is
always the female gender of that animal that is the most vicious and dangerous
and yet it is also the female of that specie that protects and raises the
offspring in loving care.
You cannot police a
woman or really know her movements for she can be the greatest deceiver: if she
really wants to play, she will go ahead and play and no matter the efforts that
her man makes, it is only by divine intervention that he will ever know. A
woman is moved by touch whilst a man is moved by sight. A woman will die for
her children and guard her home with all she has. A woman craves for security
and commitment above all else and without these two she cannot truly be happy.
A woman gives, a woman takes, a woman laughs, a woman cries, yet through all
this only she alone knows what is really in her heart. A woman can heave and
moan in the throes of orgasmic passion, yet deep down she feels nothing at all
but pity and contempt for the lover that she is deceiving. A woman can lie
still and say she feels nothing yet her heart trembles and races and her senses
come alive and quiver deeply just at the sound and by the touch of the man that
she truly desires. That is a woman for you: they can be a snare or a blessing.
They can bring joy or pain. They can wound or they can heal. They are a
beautiful contradiction of love and hate and we men simply cannot live without
them.
A woman can only
appreciate a man after she has been with another. A woman will make you feel
that you are in charge yet with sweet words and with guile and cunning she
silently controls everything and everyone around you. Women are the shield, the
defender and the foundation of the home. Even as the man is the head, the woman
is the neck without which it would fall. The greatest mistake that any man
could ever make is to underestimate or treat with levity the power of a woman.
For it is only a dullard or a fool that could honestly believe that he can
confine a woman to having babies and to simply cooking in the kitchen. A woman
is irrepressible, unbeatable,unfathomable, irresistible and unknowable and my
advice to every man is to cherish her, to love her and to grant her, her hearts
deepest desires. That is the secret to a woman's heart and what more is there
to say, other than for us to admit that the woman is the true hero of our lives
and to simply agree that we must appease and worship them and do all we can to
keep those pretty smiles on their beautiful yet dangerous faces.
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________________ Used with permission from Chief Femi Fani-Kayode.
www.femifanikayode.com